Crazy for Love
The singles scene is sizzling. Here are red-hot rules for dating and the stories of 20 sexy, successful, smart singles who will do some crazy things for love—like be profiled in this magazine.
1. Tyguenne Solomon
San Ramon • 26
Education specialist at Tarte Cosmetics.
On Saturday night, you’ll find me: On the center of a dance floor. If there is not a dance floor present, I will dance anywhere.
Craziest thing I’ve done for love: Buying a man an Xbox is probably the most romantic thing I have ever done.
In a man, I am attracted to: A sense of humor is a must. He must think I am hilarious, too—because I am!
2. Laura Delehunt
Orinda • 33
Deputy district attorney.
Favorite date spot: Metro in Lafayette.
Favorite local haunt: I’m a big fan of coffee, so I rarely go a day without visiting Peet’s in Orinda.
In a man, I’m attracted to: Integrity and kindness.
Meet Up: The Ball Game
Find the person rooting for your team at Stadium Pub or Masses in Walnut Creek, or the Hopyard in San Ramon or Pleasanton.
3. Jill Riter
Moraga • 52
Senior product manager.
On Saturday night, you’ll find me: Hosting a murder mystery party at my house, at dinner with friends, or doing something benefiting charity. I can be happy staying home if there is a good bottle of wine, a fire, a movie, and someone who wants to hold my hand.
In a man, I like: Someone who has long-term friends that he can go off with and do whatever guys like to do, and be happy to come home to me. I’ll need some girlfriend time away, too.
My weakness: A man wearing a crisp, long-sleeved tailored shirt.
Do go with the classics. No one is going to turn down Ghirardelli chocolates. Don’t take your valentine to a sports or dive bar.
4. Joey Haynes
Fairfield • 35
Air Force pilot.
Craziest thing I’ve done for love: I once entered a dance contest in an attempt to get closer with a girl ... the funny thing is, we got second place. I think it’s because most of the other guys who entered had the same idea as me.
My guilty pleasure: The game Candy Crush Saga—there, I said it.
In the future, I want: All-around blissful happiness, including a happy, healthy family. Oh, and world peace.
5. Barbara Llewellyn
Orinda • 62
Owner of Barbara Llewellyn Catering and Event Planning.
On Saturday night, you’ll find me: At a party. Whether entertaining clients or friends, I am a party girl at heart and by profession. Don’t limit me to Saturday, either: You can find me out and about any night of the week.
Favorite date spot: Prima Ristorante in Walnut Creek.
In five years, I see myself: Splitting time between Cape Cod and California, traveling, sailing, exploring, and spending time with family and friends.
Do dress to impress. Guys: head to Atlas, Venture, or Daskalos. Gals: take your pick of boutiques in La Fiesta Square. Don’t drink too much. One Rhum Clair from Walnut Creek Yacht Club packs a mean punch.
6. Heather Cargill
Walnut Creek • 41
Craziest thing I’ve done for love: The year my nephew was born, I traveled home five times. I’ve never experienced that kind of love before.
Guilty pleasure: Impulse buying … I’ve been known to go out for coffee and come home with a new car.
7. Farhat Bajjaliya
Concord • 30
On Saturday night, you’ll find me: If it’s summer, I’m coming home from wakeboarding at Lake Berryessa. If it’s winter, I’m out with friends.
Favorite local haunt: Corners Tavern in Walnut Creek. The staff makes a great Manhattan, and I like the Hemingway-esque atmosphere.
In five years, I see myself: Owning my dream home on two to four acres in Sonoma.
Meet Up: The Outdoors
Take a leisurely walk or a brisk run around the Lafayette Reservoir, or grab your pooch, and head to Heather Farm Dog Park in Walnut Creek.
8. Cynthia Allen
Walnut Creek • 34
Owner of New Start Nutrition and Wellness in Walnut Creek.
Favorite local haunt: I enjoy finding little-known pockets in the Bay Area, so you feel like you are a million miles away from civilization.
Relationship deal breaker: Health and nutrition are my livelihood and passion, so it’s important to me to be with someone who believes in taking care of his body, both mentally and physically.
Guilty pleasure: Butter and bacon.
9. Matt Seibert
Lafayette • 31
Computer software senior account executive.
Favorite date spot: Vino in Lafayette. The owner sings (serenades my dates), plays the piano, and only lets a select group of individuals in the restaurant contingent upon rapport.
On a Saturday night, you’ll find me: Driving to Tahoe to get fresh powder for snowboarding, going on wakeboarding trips, or seeing unique concerts and musicians with friends.
Craziest thing I’ve done for love: I drove eight hours to meet my girlfriend at the airport for 20 minutes before she headed to Europe for the summer.
Do respond in a timely manner if a guy asks you out; guys get nervous, too. Don’t forget to have fun!
10. Robert FIfe
Walnut Creek • 29
Sports chiropractor and tennis coach at De La Salle High.
On Saturday night, you’ll find me: With friends at 1515, ØL, or Dan’s.
Craziest thing I’ve done for love: I ran a marathon with little training to impress a girl.
11. Dan Cox
Dublin • 31
Beverage sales director.
Craziest thing I’ve done for love: I went on ABC’s The Bachelorette. I would do it again in a heartbeat.
In five years, I see myself: Traveling and exploring the world six months out of the year with my wife (who is TBD), and spending six months back in the states seeing family and catching up on business.
12. Laura Geiger
Walnut Creek • 41
On Saturday night, you’ll find me: Cooking up a fabulous new dish for friends to pair with wine.
Craziest thing I’ve done for love: Packed my bags and moved to another state within days of meeting him.
My weakness: Bald, tall men.
13. Patrick O’Donnell
Walnut Creek • 29
Craziest thing I’ve done for love: I traveled for hours just to bring a girl that I liked cough medicine because she was sick.
My guilty pleasure: Doughnuts.
In five years, I see myself: Owning my own house and traveling to Italy to meet more of my relatives there.
14. Tracy Dietlein
Vallejo • 39
Senior marketing manager of Broadway Plaza Shopping Center.
On Saturday night, you’ll find me: Out with friends or family, or watching 48 Hours and/or Dateline, feeling grateful I’m single because the husband is always the killer on those shows.
Craziest thing I’ve done for love: I had a bobblehead made in the likeness of a guy I was dating for his birthday. Turns out, he ended up liking the bobblehead better than me, and took his little mini-me with him to many fun and exotic places. … I saw the pics on Facebook.
In five years, I see myself: Settled down.
Meet Up: Creative Side
Peruse the latest exhibits with half-price admission on Friday nights at Oakland Museum of California, or check out an indie flick at the Orinda or Rheem theatres.
15. Josh Sauberman
Walnut Creek • 37
Firefighter and business owner.
Favorite date spot: Fleming’s “five for $6 until 7 p.m.” happy hour. It’s a classy-but-casual date spot, if you can find a seat.
Favorite local haunt: The Container Store. Something about all that organization in one place ...
In the future, I want: To take my wife and kids to New York to visit their grandparents and have snowball fights with their uncle and me. Yeah, I'm a sap.
Do plan ahead. Hot Spots such as A16, Chez Panisse, and Esin require reservations. Don’t plan an elaborate date for someone you’ve only met online. A latte at La Boulange will do.
16. Kristy Ledbetter
Hayward • 35
Senior manager of stadium operations events, Oakland A’s.
On Saturday night, you'll find me: I’m a homebody, so you will find me at home reading a good book … unless, of course, it is baseball season. In that case, you will find me at the stadium.
Favorite date spot: A Golden State Warriors game at Oracle Arena.
Guilty pleasure: Sons of Anarchy.
Meet Up: Ultimate Wingman
Chat over beer or wine on the patio of Blacksmith Square in Livermore, or singalong during dueling pianos at McGah’s in Danville.
17. Amara Morrison
Orinda • 52
Assistant city attorney of Livermore.
Favorite date spot: Haven in Oakland.
Craziest thing I’ve done for love: Traveled to a foreign country three times in the span of three months to indulge my passion.
Do call instead of texting. You can do it! Don’t feed someone bad line after bad line. Casually introducing yourself is so much better than, “so what’s your sign?”
18. Michael Stene
Livermore • 40
Software engineer, storyboard artist, and illustrator.
Favorite local haunt: Downtown Pleasanton.
On Saturday night, you’ll find me: Oil painting, hanging out with friends, shooting pool, at the movies, or going to the gun range.
Meet Up: Discerning Tastes
Consider heading to Residual Sugar for a happy hour glass of vino, or join fellow foodies at a tasting event like Gourmet East Bay. For a day trip, head out to Livermore wine country.
19. Patrick Schwerdtfeger
Walnut Creek • 42
Author and professional speaker.
On Saturday night, you’ll find me: Unleashing my inner Ricky Martin on the dance floor. OK, no Ricky, but I’ve been salsa dancing for 12 years now.
Favorite date spot: Modern China Cafe in downtown Walnut Creek.
Relationship deal breaker: I need a woman who is as excited about being a parent as I am. I’d love to have a daughter one day.
20. Timothy Wat
Concord • 52
College professor and jazz pianist.
Craziest thing I’ve done for love: Wrote a waltz for someone I was smitten with. She wept for hours when I played it for the first time for her.
In a woman, I’m attracted to: Intelligence, inner strength, self-awareness, and a stubborn passion for what’s right.
My guilty pleasure: Motorcycle racing.